Thanks for your replys and questions Sandi it helps me greatly.
With work being very hectic these days for both myself and W. Our contact person to person has been limited. My W has been texting me more and we talk by phone usually once a day mostly updates about kids. We met up yesterday for my sons game talked and just had fun together. Later on in the evening we meet again it wasn't planned we start talking about the day and the kids i mention im hungry my W looks at me and says were shoild we go.
We spend just over an hour at the Bar no R talk just light conversation with lots of smiles and laughs. I bring the evening to an end by letting her know i still have some things to get. I know this is MIND READING but she seemed sad that our evening was coming to an end.
So in the parking lot we sit in the car together for a few minutes holding hands and again just light talk about our schedules my w looks at me as im about to exit car and says lets keep doing what we are doing i just get overwelmed sometimes...
All i could say was i understand and thank you for sharing this with me...
I will mention this also in last couple weeks my W has been bringing me treats or calling and asking me if i want coffee and when at Sons events
These are all actions that i have not seen in months..
I keep reminding myself slow and steady wins the race....
