Stop. Stop analyzing. Stop talking. Stop DOING anything. What are you gaining from this? Anything at all? Focus on you, focus on your kids. GAL. That's it!
If you want to reconcile the M, nothing but the above will help. If you're done with the M, nothing but the above will help. You say that "I thought I was done so I let her have it!" Did that make you feel any better? (for more than ten minutes?) Is it worth it to antagonize someone has ALREADY FILED FALSE POLICE REPORTS?
Detach. It's imperative for your own mental and emotional health.
I used to joke that I prefer to learn my lessons the hard way... it is not so funny anymore.
Using the TRO as a tool in helping to detach might not have been the best mode of thought.
GAL... I play guitar, it is the only thing that completely takes my mind off the sitch, I have been making a lot more time to do so even if it's @ 11:00 at night (the only perk to having an empty house)... I have also started working on the house, I am remodeling a bathroom at the moment, this has helped, but I find myself dwelling on the sitch as I am doing it, heck in the corner of my mind I have even thought what would the W want in here if she was to come home.
The kids and I built an outdoor dinner table last weekend, we made some good memories and had a lot of fun.
The sun still rises, even though the pain.
Married: 10 Together: 17 M:40 W:37 D:13, S 7, S:5 1st Bomb dropped: 4/20/17 2nd Bomb dropped: 6/6/17 Separated: 7/26/17 W moved back home: 12/1/17
