In response to things improving, my W was planning trips around my schedule, picking up the slack on chores, generally being friendlier and more accomodating. I know this sounds insignificant, but it was a noticeable change in my W.
As far as the audiobook, I like it so far. It has some very strong religious references that go overboard for me, but it is sound reading and advice. Half way through it, and author is talking about detaching from the wayward spouse. Its a short book...6 hr audio.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues