Holding, I have a relative(not on these boards as far as I know) that was a LBH with two kids, found out his WW was having an affair with a co worker, kicked her out of the marital house. He never filed for divorce for lack of money, they were separated for almost 3 years and during that time the relative made a better version of himself, a much better version that was and is a great dad! HE started dating another woman while his WW moved in with the AP that turned her to drugs.
Around the 2 year mark of separation the WW started to come out of the fog and realized her greener pasture wasn't so green and started to really miss her old life and especially her kids. She left the AP and entered a treatment facility to clean her life up and reached out to my relative asking for forgiveness and wanting to come home. My relative said no at first but over the next 6 months he warmed up to the having her back. It started out with some "dating" and time with the kids and then she moved back in.
They have now been back together for about 6 years and are a model couple and family within my extended family. I'm not sure if that necessarily qualifies with what you asked but they would have been divorced if my relative had the money, he was done!
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