Doodler, thanks for sharing that story. Man, that's harsh - having the OM visit her in the hospital. It took a lot of b@lls for you to make her leave so soon after the surgery, but I'm glad you did it! Being in f*ck you mode definitely helps in moments like that.
Ok, so here's a general question for everyone. Has any forum member here ever gotten a D and then later recon'd with their Ex? I'm not looking for stories of people you might know (I think 25 has a few like that), but actual members or former members.
Hopefully it's not a divisive question. I realize a success story here is for the LBS to be confident and happy in their future, not necessarily a recon. I also understand that some people may just drop off the board and never come back to report.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18