Only thing is OM..If he is as unhealthy as you thought and she stays with him It will have to effect her as well.
.I definitely would not want my kids around anyone of influence like a parent or AF if there were drugs involved and even if they are sober it is a slippery slope I would address the drug issue and OM with the therapist before a meeting with girls and set a boundary if possible It may get her to sober up/leave him if it means her R with the girls Just my opinion. because you say she texts 8-5 only so is he still in picture unless he is in therapy also to heal his wounds, he is still a problem
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