How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[Clyde]

I spoke w/ the W again later that night, I told her that I feel really bad for her and how things are unfolding w/D13, and that I have lost a lot of sleep over it. I explained how I have been handling it, but that I am not sure it's helping the D13's point of view.

We talked about the D13 and her going to C together (we talked about it after D13 found the court docs but it never happened), she said D13 should go, and I said they both should go together, she said yeah probably.

Prior to all this, during the convo last week were I vented about the TRO etc., I told the W how I am still going to C and that it really helps, she should consider going back to IC, She said you are probably right, I will when I can afford it (this response blew me away). I responded by telling her I would pay for it and left it at that. It has not come up again.