How a treehouse can cost you your marriage

[Clyde]

I told the W that she did the right thing by putting her family before her friends, and that if that was the case all along things would be different, instead she has forsaken her real family for a friends that she calls her sister/family.

Thats when I broke the news about D13 having no trust/respect for her, and how on top of everything else D13 has seen, she was reading the W's text (yes I know this was not the time to bring that up, emotions got high). I told her to look at what she is doing to her family, when is it going to stop.

She again started to rewrite history and claimed the friends said noting/did nothing, I pointed out that not only did I see text to the contrary, so did D13, as a matter of fact D13 saw more as she was in her phone long before me and more often.

I referenced some specific text the pseudo "sister" sent and how they clearly influenced the W, and that I never saw a single text encouraging her to work on the M. I said I'm still tempted to blow the "sisters' cover to the BIL. The W said go ahead, the "sister" and her have already cut me off at the pass... he won't believe any of it.

So I hung up and text the BIL, "I think it is in your best interest you call me, I have some truths you should be aware of... I'll back them up with a polygraph which I am willing to pay for." He never replied. At this point it is in his hands.

I do wonder what effect contacting the BIL will have w/ the W and I's chance at R.