Originally Posted By: fish198
Yes he is definitely doing that. Was sending emails at the weekend saying that he missed me and we could be a family and asked if I would take him back. But no acknowledgement of anything just words and no serious action. I haven't engaged much other than to tell him to seek professional help and that I wanted to see action and not meaningless words.


You are very brave and doing EXACTLY what you should be doing!

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To which he then just ignored and decided to change his profile picture on social media to one of himself and the OW.


And that tells you that you were right to be skeptical! Wow what a jerk move on his part.

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I would rather he just left me alone entirely, as its annoying and disrupting having him send these emails. I find it difficult to understand why he does it and what he seeks to achieve by continuing to lie, be deceitful and manipulative.


He does it because he wants it all. He wants his nice little marriage and he wants his fling on the side. It must be very annoying to him that you're not on board with his plans.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57