Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 7

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It would honestly be no different.

So why do you need to be divorced to 'move on'?

Other than free to do what want morally

You have your own moral compass so follow it.
My marriage/relationship doesnt define my morals - I do based on what I believe in.

and save myself from W financial mistakes.

If this is truly a concern, then you should see the divorce through. You could certainly be liable for her spending now.

The plan was very much to see it through. Figured W would sign quick, since she swears that is what she wants. Now this is in limbo as well. And as time went on I naturally wondered what the deal was. It was never my intent to change her mind with the paperwork. I was willing to let her go and move on.

So you only want to get divorced because she did? Now that shes not signing it, youre pausing because she might not want the divorce?

Im sorry but that doesnt make sense with what you are saying above.

Letting her go means letting her go. Being wishy washy about whether or not to push through the papers shows her that your filing was a 'tactic' to check her temperature.