I have been GAL and detaching. But the counselors are pretty much along the lines of cut ties with this woman andvcomplerelt move on. Saying that I deserve to find a good woman out there. Not tomorrow, but as long as I am committed to W the longer that pushes that back.
As for commitment, I thinkbthat is ginebat the moment. Hence the reason for strongly considering the divorce. Looking at TxHubby sitch. He waited until it got to the point where he just said he'll with it, I want to be happy. A WW will always be the elephant in the room even when everything in your life is going great. They only part of my life right now that isn't good is my MR. All ither aspects has seriously improved. And I have plans going into 2018 to make it even better.
