What to Do? 4

[chris19]

I am glad you all are saying this, and I am even more glad I did notice this while she was speaking to me. Also, I am glad it was over the phone, b/c I am not sure how I would have taken this if it were face to face.

I absolutely felt the discomfort inside swelling up; at that point in time, I just start to clam up I guess, and search for words in my head. The "power" makes me feel very uncomfortable and like there is nothing I can say to make things smooth again - which is my NGS. I am trying to learn I DO NOT NEED TO MAKE THINGS SMOOTH; I just need to hear her point of view. This is the hard part for me, and I am beginning IC for my passive/NGS traits.