I haven't thought indepently at any time as an adult. Dated W as a teen and looked out for her best interest ever since. Being separated has helped me actually get back to what I was like prior to getting married, so there has been some good. Guess the biggest issue I am having lately is people asking me what are you doing in regards to divorcing W. I try staying cool, but it gets to you after a while with folks wondering what am I waiting for in regards to her.
