At this I feel I should be plan A. But W won't acknowledge that until things blow up in her face. Then she will look at her plan B who she'll realize was plan A all along. I have no issue dating myself for awhile. Right now I am really trying to figure out what type of characteristic a woman that I want at this point? Guess I am not really interested in dating. But I would like to hang out with different types of women just to see what I would like at this point. I was married at 21. So my views at 37 is quite a bit different than they were.
This does not come from hanging out with other women. This comes from getting to know yourself independent of your W.
Stop worrying about whether she thinks you are plan X Y or Z and get to know who you are independent of her. The kind of women who is for you follows after that.
being married since 21 is hard. you are in this place where she still is a factor in your personal decisions and you are ready to see what woman meshes with you when you don't even really know who the true you is independent of being your W's H.
