Nope! Say nothing. She is still trying to manipulate you. This time, she pulled the guilt card to use on you. And, being the nice guy that you are........you start mentally backtracking and second guessing yourself.

PLEASE do not send your W any text or call. Leave her alone. She's angry, lying, and manipulating........do not get involved in her trickery. And, stop reminding her what you need from her to reconcile.

Chris, you really are doing a good job of holding firm. Just please don't believe what she says about you when she's trying to make you feel badly about something. She knows you so well, and she knows it will bother you. So, ignore it. She is trying to control you.

((hugs))

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!