Thanks for your response. I'm really trying to do those things you suggest. I got part of a diagnosis for my condition and it's a fairly bad problem that'll take a while to treat. I didn't have any of the risk factors except stress. I do have a psychologist and a counselor and they help to some degree, until you hit a point where there's not much left to discuss because you're already doing the things they suggest and there's no change in the marriage status.
In any case it's nice to see you went through all that and survived. I hope I will too. Thanks again!
