Originally Posted By: CW2017
Originally Posted By: LiamJ
No, I’m moving out because she makes her living in the home as a nursery. I’m getting a signed agreement on shared residency first though. And also agreeing some financials too. It doesn’t matter who stays/leaves in the UK, its basically all about how much time they spend at each home. We’ve agreed shared residency so... I work for the government and get free legal representation so i doubt she could compete with that to be honest if it really came down to it.

Hi Liam
intrigued by what you said about free legal representation as I also work for a government dept! Having said that, my lawyer (working for a firm that only practices family law) shares my particular faith and was really good pointing out all my options from a moral viewpoint (as opposed to serve now!) as well as the usual financial considerations, etc. I guess the other unfortunate aspect about UK law is who a judge might side with (say no more, I hope you never get to that stage!).

all the best


Hi, all government departments provide a civil/public service employee wellness benefit. Its emotional services and legal services.

Yep hopefully, but it's looking bleak at the moment. It seems like 1 step forward and 2 steps back!