It sounds like you may actually have a chance here and like most newcomers you are going to make it worse by constantly looking for reassurance that she can't give your right now.
I asked her last night why she hasnt filed and she said that if I keep asking her she will, I said do what you need to do. BTW I have only asked her twice in the last 2 weeks. *******REALLY just stop! Never ask again.
I have completely worked on myself and changed all the behaviors she mentioned that bothered her. *********** Seriously?
I said to her that its completely inappropriate to hang out with them and she said that is why she wants a D, to do what she wants. *******************Hello she can't get more clear. Stop judging her!!!!!!
If you take the focus off of W *completely* she will notice. That will give her space to breathe, and to think. That's the only way these things turn around -- the ONLY way.