25, we weren't going trick or treating--D had already been with XW. D was going home, to bed. It wasn't "let's wait a while to eat" it was "she should have already eaten, it's almost bed time."
I see how she could think I was being P/A. Staring at her like she was a stinkbug would probably drive the rage through the roof, though. Next time, I'll just walk the hell away.