You need to divorce her and explain to your family why this is happening as a start. W doesn't care about you leaving, then you need you stay anyways. Trust me she will care about a divorce, especially when the truth get a out. Hate to break this to you, but your W already hates you. Tell her to kiss your a** if she gets too disrespectful.
She will see you as the man only a fool will leave once your not around. And BIL does nothing for her. Right now she is well aware that you are too afraid to leave her. Its time for actions at this piint in your sitch. Can't use the kids as an excuse anymore. Right now your W is getting educated to find a job to leave you. It's time to make things difficult for her.
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