T......I believe the advice you got was to move out of the house and away from her madness. What is stopping you from doing that?

FWIW.....my W moved out of our home and I know she doesn't miss me. For the record, she is a fool.

IMO you are making this too much about your W, her feelings and not enough about you.

Also, all the stuff the G said.

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018