does your wife SAY it's over and she's recommitted now? Sorry I don't recall your sitch off the top of my head.
I'm not sure if you guys are trying to reconcile or piecing, etc
Jim, if your wife really does "get it" and if you really do get it as to how she felt before the A
(b/c as you said, you two sort of took turns doing the rejecting)
that's a big fat step. But in my experience, remorse can only be felt a certain length of time before it feels oppressive or like shame.
Not defending that^^^, just noting it.
I think Each party has to believe at some point the past will remain in the past and the couple can go "from this day forward."
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
