Jim
Believe me I've been round the houses mentally with this, esp in the early months and also because I have the other wife's name and address. I have decided to stick with Sandi's first option (from the other week and added to by 25), ie ride it out being the best person I can be for my W, GAL whilst detaching as best I can due to living together. If I detect no change in things down the road (gut reaction etc) well then that's a different story.....

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains