Hi Irish, as ownit says great job. I admire you on so many levels. I have had very very similar conversations with my exw, even down to ' he wont be in their lives' but i just shut her out and while it worked for me, you are doing the work for your girls and her.
Your approach seems strong while caring and it shows your character and strength.
I would imagine a difficult journey ahead but nothing you cannot handle. Please remember that while the girls.do come first , Irish has his own sanity to protect so keep exw at a distance that your comfortable with. Don't get dragged into her drama.
