Originally Posted By: sandi2 Has she ever screamed and threw fits at the kids?
Oh god yes. All the time. For years.
Ah.....so that says it is not just a problem between the two of you. If she uses the same bad behavior toward her children, then it is a problem in "her". Sounds as if it has been an unhealthy environment for a long time. Is she trying to get a reaction from them, too?
On second thought, you may have to take the boys with you when you leave the house.
Have you ever considered recording her whenever she goes into these rages? I mean, if there's a chance she could become physical with the kids.........or with you.......then you'd have something to show how she acts when she's angry, if needed.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
