MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

--tough one
hopefully others will chime in on this one

I know after a while I got tired of H coming over and having a key, so I asked him for the key back and he gave it
If he came over, we needed to be home and available
MY XH took papers that were important like his motorcycle deed and sold it when I was not home
That was paid with shared money-

your H does not live there anymore-I would set clear boundaries moving forward
he can take what is his, but both of you need to agree
maybe since you are living alone a new lock can be aded and just simply tell H for your safety you've added a new lock and if he would like to come over to get things in the future, you will have to be home
he does not need the key because he doesn't live there-


We have to realize the MLCer will do exactly whatever they plan to do-no matter how nice or not we are
We have to stand up for our rights even if we lose them because if we are meant to lose them we will either way
some LBS can wind up in debt by allowing MLCer to run the show and call shots
Do what is best for you-