So you might just imagine the dynamics in my household where my W's mother lives with us and I am forever walking on eggshells as it came out in MC how controlling the MIL was, banning her from relationships in her teens (due to the expectation of an arranged marriage) so not only do I have to deal with a wayward wife but also their tempestuous relationship which is still fullon despite her M being very elderly.

Me 55, W 50
D 8
M 20
T 27
MIL w/ us
BD 01/02/17
workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA)
OM senior manager, long term W, child 14
now: limbo (my choice)

"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains