One of my best friends parents got divorced when he was 12 years old. His parents hated each other. They would get into arguments in the stands at his baseball games and always used his brother and him to get back at one another. Really messed him up and he is still not completely recovered from it.
His father remarried his mother never did. His father second W passed about 5 years ago. About two years ago after both his parents visited his house at the same time they reconnected with one another.
35 years later they now currently spend time almost everyday together playing cards, games and reminiscing about the old days.
Moral of the story is just because you feel this way today doesn't mean you will tomorrow, a year from now, heck 35 years from now.
