Perfect time of the year to buy lights - the selection is unbelievable. White lights yes, but I may buy some color ones to mix things up.

Looking for a room divider but nothing interesting. Anything interesting is far too expensive. So, I am going to build one smile

I am trying to get into more DIY stuff and I am not a beginner when it comes to using basic tools and drills. So, found a great tutorial online for a room divider that includes branches and xmas lights. Trip to Home Depot added to my list of things to do this weekend.

Communications with W have been good as we are wrapping up stuff for the old house - bills etc. She asked if I wanted to join in on Halloween this evening. I wavered for a bit, but then declined. I really don't want to be doing family type stuff - only time I will break it this year is for the kids bdays which are coming up. I think that this year it will be more important to be there together and then I will see for next year how I feel.

She had suggested family dinners few months ago, but nothing has come out of it. Her trouble has always been following through with things and this is probably one of it. I am not going to suggest it as I am fine without them.

Keeping NC/going dark outside of kids stuff is my comfort zone right now and it's going well for me. I have no idea what her life is like and I don't ask, and I really don't care to know.


No one is coming to save you!