the fact that this is not your first round of DBing is telling and sad.
It means that "doing everything" actually did not last.
We all must live and learn and not repeat the same mistakes. Our spouses may repeat their mistakes so we must change OUR response.
Not all marriages can be saved, not all should be.
But IF IF IF your wife can come around, it'd be by her losing you.
See a L asap to see how you can extricate yourself from this crazy abuse cycle. You are a participant in the abuse cycle your kids are watching, till you get out of it.
Go be with the kids in peace, let them see some harmony and kindness. And sanity.
You can't do that with a w who is batchit angry at you.
I'm very sorry.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
