you cannot save the m being in the same house, imo.
"Doing everything" is no way to live, it's not sustainable anyhow. And it's no way to get respect from your w, or model marriage to your kids.
I was so sure maintaining an "intact family" was the only priority, and so afraid of the alternative, that I failed to see what my kids saw. Putting up with too much garbage and neglecting my own needs is a huge regret of mine - as a mother and as a woman.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016