Tate, Is this how you want want to live the rest of your life?
No, not at all. I am sticking with the situation, hoping I can turn things around. I want to be able to say that I exhausted all reasonable options and really tried before I throw in the towel.
I commend you for the efforts and the goal. I really do.
But DBing is first and foremost, about doing what works.
(Not to nag, but have you actually read the DB book?)
Anyhow, what you are doing is NOT working. You gotta Do something different.
Last but not least,
I don't say this often, but in this circumstance, I'm very concerned your kids are not better off in this "intact" family. The dynamic is abusive. Seriously.
If a man said to his wife, what your w says to you
"get out of the living room/I hate you/I love the kids more than I hate you-you're lucky"
there'd be no hesitation saying it's verbal/emotional abuse. And in front of the kids?
Bad news. You have to change how you interact, asap.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
