Maybe I do not understand going dark, but I do know that the one time I traveled out if the country with our current situation, my W kissed me as I was heading out the door to the airport. That was our last kiss. It seemed that she was going to miss me. big assumptions here...
I do agree I need to be going out and GAL in the evenings. I have two nights I must be home for the kids, then two other nights I exercise and work on my own projects.
um, these^^^ are 2 nights in which you can and must make GAL your main project, along with the other nights below
- see, GAL is more important than you seem to get. You cannot detach without GAL
and without detaching, you will get sucked into the arguments you so want to avoid,
and that just sets you back. This situation will make you nuts, and GAL to detach and to improve your mood and your air of mystery and what you present to your kids,
is essential. I cannot stress this^^ enough.
That leaves three nights to GAL. It is hard to get myself to go out on those nights...I usually spend them with the kids also. So, you all are recommending that I go out anyway on some of those nights?
yes, emphatically.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
