Leah

I'm glad you are doing what feels right for you. We all have to.

My concern is 2 fold; one is financial - and I implore you to double check what you think you know about the money situation. it cannot hurt and hey, this is the biggest financial decision of your life.

And the emotional concern I have is - as the L said, for you to work on with your T

(and us!).

BTW, do you have a T there? God, I'm not sure I could have made it without mine.

The L was wise to say that he's not your T. He will cost much more and not be as good at encouraging you to heal, or pointing out things you may need to work on.

The L will ask for financials and interrogatories and such...not fun at all...

So he said that hiring him means he goes all out. Do you not have ANY control over him? Interesting.


I won't pretend that filing for divorce was not a tiny bit to wake h up. Kind of embarrassing to admit.

Oh well, plenty of embarrassment for me to work on.

Hey, ((( Leah )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change