Chapter 5 - Turning over to a new page

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AndrewP:

You are so wise - thank you. It must be the Canadian Genes.

Funny, I don't see my kids as hurting and confused. They often seem so indifferent. That bugs me (if it's the case).

i'll check out the Jack_3_Beans thread.

When I was 23 - I got involved with a married woman. She was 30. She told me her husband didn't love her blah, blah,. Her husband was a meek and nice guy. Had he told me to get lost, I would have.

Approx 24 years later W is having a EA - which today she still denies it. I contacted him - he took off. She was hurt because he played her.

So telling this A$$ that I'm fighting for my family may not be a bad thing. I know he has 3 kids - I'm sure he wishes that his kids were with both parents to some degree (probably glad that his MR is over). Plus, it would make me feel better.

I told W, that he should contact me - if He doesn't I'll contact him. I know full well that if I do, I'll be throwing a match in a room of gas. So that's what's stopping me.

I also, have and will tell my sons again, that a real man will fight for his family no matter what. I'm sure my kids see me busting my butt to take care of them, so I'm sure they get it.

We will see what happens.