Thanks for the update. Sounds like you've reached real detachment. You're pretty much off the crazy train, and when your MLCer forces you to get back on it, you see it for what it is. I envy your great perspective on things. The experience only sounds like half the story, the other half is how it's interpreted, which sounds really advanced on your part (the sexting comments would have set me off).
There are brief moments I find myself with time to spare, and I think to call a friend for dinner or beers or a movie. Then I realize that's a waste of time, because I am in - as you've said - "monk mode". Ha ha. That one goes in the record books.
M: 49, W: 45 T: 22 M: 15 S14, S11, S9 BD: Jan '16 W files: Oct '16 D final: June '18