Do the kids go to the Sat. breakfast? Do they know about the OM? If it were me, I would tell my oldest kids (at least) that I was going to change things.....and why.
Why keep them in the dark if she has let it be known about OM? Actually, all of them need to know the truth. You may decide to tell your youngest in a more delicate way, but not as to cover up the truth from him.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
