Sandi2: Once again you've hit it out of the park.

Sorry, for not being clear. The majority of the time she is spending with S11 is at her apt. S17 goes over, eats and walks back. They do spend a little time here - not much.

Most Saturday am - she comes over makes breakfast for everyone and then takes S11.

Yes, it's time to stop all family time now that OM is in the picture.

I guess, I can tell her Let's set up a regular pick up and/or drop off times on Sat. The Tues & Thursday evening may need to stay the same. We'll have to play it by ear. As there are other activities etc that are going on.

You can enjoy your time with them and drop the car and S11 off at an established time.

Should I tell the kids, I'm shutting down the Saturday morning breakfast. I'd hate to make "drastic" changes without a heads up.

Thank you so much for coming back to my rescue. I really was floundering.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017