Right, so why should I care about being a rock for WW if she's already gone?
She is gone now but that could change later. I personally am not attempting to be a rock for my WW but more for my family in general. I am remaining calm, deliberate and focusing on myself. My W is on her journey and I don't think it is time to make an emotional decision until I have clarity on the situation. I can only get that clarity when I am strong and not acting out of emotions.
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Isn't the biggest part of DB'ng working on yourself and not worrying about the WS?
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So that tells me that I really only need to be reliable for my DD's...
If your DD's had a vote what would be their vote? Family together or family broken up? You are standing for your family and letting your W take her journey while subsequently working on yourself.
