Thanks for your "boundary" notice. It's perfect I'm going to use it.
The discussion came up around her reason relates to me being "punishing". If she needed me to help because she was in a car accident that's unexpected etc. If she is making plans for her recreation time, she should expect a cost like she would for a airplane ticket, hotel, etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017