Gordie: MLC W with a BF...negotiating our D #12

[SBJ]

Gord, trust me when I say I know exactly how you feel. I always hated it when people would say that, but actually had no idea of the situation. In this case we all know the crazy. You have a treasure trove of people and experiences here to help you.

Time doesn't help you forget about the situation...it helps you figure out how to cope and accept the situation. I will not say that there won't be things that set you off...a song, a memory, something so familiar, but you will get thru it.

You and I have the similarity of our significant other wanting to be so nice to us and thinking that there is this fantasy friendship at the end of this Disneyland ride. I do pray that they both come out of their fantasy land, but I know that we can only let go and let God take the reigns. You, your kids, and your wife will remain in my prayers daily.