I agree, no reason to argue. 25%, 50% or whatever I don't see it mattering in the grand scheme of things and just seems to be more counter-productive than productive. Just validate with how she feels and move on. Is any of this getting you closer to your goals?


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018