You're absolutely right LH. I am not hanging on to her. I am working on detachment and I believe I have come to a place honestly where I can say that I have dropped the rope.
The only thing that I am emotionally dealing with is how this is affecting my kids. I am doing everything in my power to write this chapter with them that is absolutely phenomenal. I am not trying to compete with W at who is the better parent. I know what my strengths are and I know what I can bring to the kids lives and support them in everything they do.
I have no rebuttals to what you said. I have to say that I am way more calm and chill internally for myself and I am happier right now. Everything that I can have control over, I am making sure that it is going well. I am making most of the time I have and getting to my goals. I am more settled in my new place outside of a few things here and there.
