Contact from the dark side.

[peacetoday]

Hi


I think you may see more of what is going on with her after the meeting
she may need more time, but your support may guide her and give her valuable information -she can bring to her therapist
if using and OM are the things holding her back-therapist can maybe help her see this
"lifestyle" is not good for her
if he is any good at all
In my mind, if a person is fully clean from drugs/alcohol anything is possible for a recovery no matter where they are
if using I'm not sure-Ive seen a lot of things over the years in alanon
Im not a believer in recreational use/ or even for pain medication
although some may need to medicate for various reasons
I think there is a better way-
Just have another view on drugs after being in alanon for 30 years

I like the way you can put it all away and move into your new life

You are there for her/watching for he to wake up
I believe all you are doing is helping her and may one day help her reconnect
I think you can set boundaries that she may follow within reason and take to therapist
-use your judgement
I think you understand the situation pretty clearly and I wish the best for you-