I lifted the following from resolut's "WW won't separate" thread:
Originally Posted By: tread
I'm with AnotherStander. First 6 months it's completely dealing with your emotions. By the end of that period is when you really see the WS for who they are.
I'm coming up to the six month mark since BD and I may be at this point. I don't know what changed maybe it was the confidence boost from talking to a female at the terrace lounge when I was recently out of town. She was cute and I made her laugh quite a few times...made me realize that perhaps my mojo is returning? It's a strange feeling that I don't obsess anymore about what WW is doing, what is WW thinking, etc. I guess I'm at the acceptance point.
In MC last week, I said "I want to R but I have no control over WW...she has to make that decision"
Later that night WW texted "Divorce isn't my first choice"
