I would agree that if she had to work late or go take care of a family member then not seeing your kids is a consequence. To choose to go to her "orgies" and spend her $ on herself instead of the kids - that's not a sacrifice, it's a choice.
Again, where are my kids in all this. All she talks about is her new life, friends, etc. I don't ask, but should I? How does S11 feel that she is going off to Washington, Las Vegas, Quebec City instead of spending time with him? What do my kids get when she ditches them to go out with her friends?
I'm sure she feels that she spent years, cooking, cleaning, wiping butts, so it's her turn now.
Who's really being punished?
None of them are willing to tell me honestly and I try not to ask, as to not look too needy.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017