Good for you M it sounds like you are in a good spot and it's crazy how we charting similiar paths. How are your kids adjusting? My youngest just told me she wished her mom and I did not break up it broke my heart. I just did kid exchange and my W told me to enjoy my week. I mean WTF???? Obviously she was projecting but I will never understand how someone can enjoy only seeing their kids 50% of the time. I know there are many things in life we will never know the answers to so I guess this is going to be one of them.