Advice on wife's actions

[Gordie]

If she is trying to leave and you take away her keys that is controlling.

Some WW leave their H. Some leave H and kids. It stinks but at this point don’t try and stop her. You can only control you. Be there for your kids even if it is 100% of the time. Get a L and record her absences.

I’m sorry this is happening to your family. You really need a L to protect you and your children.