Quote:
ok then....I’m getting the hint”.


I don't know if she knows how to talk to you without manipulating and setting snares. Can you see it in the above quote? What would you have done in the past? I'll guess you would have been contacting her, apologizing and assuring her that you did not mean whatever she took it to mean......and you'd end up in a R talk. But basically, you would be dancing to her music, just the way she wants.

Recognizing these snares will help you avoid them.

Quote:
I'm fearing myself getting so distant


Not sure what you mean. Why do you fear it?

Is your W standing in your way of happiness? If so, what can you do about it?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!