Thanks for you post. It means a lot. Yes, I can see why she thinks it's punishment too.
I'm really need to stop the chase game. It get's my crazy her defensive then we end up in R talk as opposed to just talking about the business topics. I've requested reg meetings, I've written her notes, emails, etc.
I need an out of the box suggestions. Who's got one?
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017